I still love you. -unknown
Monday, 10 September 2018
Single?
Ever pondered if you deserve this love? Prolly you guys out there dreamt to have the perfect boyfriend. Well, who doesn't? If this will be your first, please don't expect too much because there's no such thing as perfect boyfriend. I myself is not perfect. Everyone do have their own flaws. In relationship, you gotta accept someone for who they are be it their good side, bad side and ugly side of them. You gotta accept your other half for everything. But that doesn't mean your other half can treat you like a fool. But do not tell him all of your concerns about his social because he will find you a burden or don't understand him. You may kinda hope that your own first relationship would last. You may be naive about this cuz it's quite rare to have someone to last with their first partners. Maybe this is just an experience for you? Well, just chill and let God do his job. It's okay to be single again if this relationship doesn't meant for you. It's not a harm to be single again. But i really hope your relationship would last. God bless you.
Sunday, 9 September 2018
H A P P Y ?
Happy? Happy means you're satisfied with what you're doing and also with the people around you that you trust dearly. But if once the trust has been broken for some reasons, it might be hard for you to trust that person. This is just because you're afraid of getting lied on and have that bits of not trusting him.
In order to be happy with him as a partner who has broke your trust. It's okay to give him another chance. Because he may do it due to his own reasons that you might not known yet. But that doesn't mean you have to trust every single thing he said till it's proven. Don't be naive.
If you think you can give him another chance, by all means you gotta put trust on him at least and stop bringing up the past. He knew he did the mistake but you shouldn't be bugging him with the mistakes he did. He might be irritated by you. So DONT! If you still can stop bugging him abt the past, it just mean that you dont trust him anymore. So by all means i think it's best if you and him part ways. I guess that would be better.
In relationship, you don't expect for rainbows always. Without sunshine and rain there wont be any rainbows. It's just like a rollercoaster ride. In order to last, yall gotta work things out tgt. Have an adult conversation rather thn conversation over texts. If yall managed to face all these ups and downs, it will actually make your relationship with that person even stronger. Cuz yall are not in the phase of saying i love you to each other anymore, instead you guys are learning abt each other and how to work things out if things doesn't go both you and your partner's ways.
"There would be no rainbows without sunshine and rain."
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