Happy? Happy means you're satisfied with what you're doing and also with the people around you that you trust dearly. But if once the trust has been broken for some reasons, it might be hard for you to trust that person. This is just because you're afraid of getting lied on and have that bits of not trusting him.
In order to be happy with him as a partner who has broke your trust. It's okay to give him another chance. Because he may do it due to his own reasons that you might not known yet. But that doesn't mean you have to trust every single thing he said till it's proven. Don't be naive.
If you think you can give him another chance, by all means you gotta put trust on him at least and stop bringing up the past. He knew he did the mistake but you shouldn't be bugging him with the mistakes he did. He might be irritated by you. So DONT! If you still can stop bugging him abt the past, it just mean that you dont trust him anymore. So by all means i think it's best if you and him part ways. I guess that would be better.
In relationship, you don't expect for rainbows always. Without sunshine and rain there wont be any rainbows. It's just like a rollercoaster ride. In order to last, yall gotta work things out tgt. Have an adult conversation rather thn conversation over texts. If yall managed to face all these ups and downs, it will actually make your relationship with that person even stronger. Cuz yall are not in the phase of saying i love you to each other anymore, instead you guys are learning abt each other and how to work things out if things doesn't go both you and your partner's ways.
"There would be no rainbows without sunshine and rain."
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