Priorities

Why still continue to prioritise someone who doesn't put you first in their priorities list? Why are you even hurting yourself? Don't ever prioritise someone who don't prioritise you first. At most, you will get hurt knowing that your expectations doesn't met. You shouldn't be expecting anything actually. Like my previous post.. "Expect the unexpected". Why go that extra mile when that someone is just enjoying the fact that you're prioritising him/her BUT you don't get anything in return. Well, I'm not saying you shouldn't but as long you're sincere go ahead. But, as a human beings, we do have limits. Ask yourself, until when will you still be sincere and go that extra mile when you didn't get anything in return. Instead, all you got was.. You're just either their second option or rather third option after his/her friends. Why do that when you actually put him/her as your first option instead of your friends or fam etc.? Do you still think it's fair? Even though you and him/her went out with your individual friends, you're curious about his/her whereabouts or what are they up to. But, does he/she cares about your whereabouts or what are you up to? At most he/she will just reply you when he/she got the time or already heading home. Cuz why? That friend's attention are more crucial and important as compared to your texts. Actions speak louder than words. So, ask yourself again.. Are you really a girlfriend or a boyfriend material to him/her or just a thing for him/her to have fun with?

All in all, it's YOU who put in too much for the relationship. Like you're the one who is afraid of losing him/her and not them. Just an advise for yall, please don't let your partner take granted of you yeah. Make him/her know your worth. If he/she seemed not scared of losing you, by all means, you should leave that toxic relationship. Reason is... He/she knew you won't leave. So, know your worth and think what is right and what is not yeah. Why be in a relationship where you are not his/her first priority? Heart breaks ain't easy, but it's better to leave the toxic relationship than to stay. Am I right?

Now it's 2019 already my lovelies! Let's start the year with positive vibes and set your priorities right! Don't forget to love yourself more than loving others okay!

"Self love is the best therapy"